I went to a naturopath once who told me I wasn’t digesting stuff. She told me to start taking bitters before I ate to get my spleen to pump out some bile. Then I went to a Reiki master who said I had low self esteem, and that was all around my stomach too. So […]
The secret idea that drives me the craziest, the idea so many people who don’t think deeply about other people’s lives are guided by, is that gender presentation is a choice for every person. Frankly this secret idea gets to go un-articulated because feminism is dominated by people with a lot of economic privilege and […]
It was just time, for a lot of reasons, to move on.
I was going to write a post titled “Why Detransitioners Disappear” using screenshots of the various abusive and disrespectful comments on the Atlantic video- the insults about how I look, being called a liar, being called crazy, the objectifying pity. Someday soon I probably will, just to document what detransitioners who go public have to […]
https://www.gofundme.com/help-detransitioned-women-connect “Hello everyone! We are a group of women who have been building community for several years around the shared experience of reconciling with being female after a period of dis-identification, dysphoria, or transition. We believe that it is important to build networks and infrastructure for women of this experience to organize and heal with […]