I didn’t mention this in the video, but the constant condescension does not stop when you detransition. Since detransitioning people have assumed that I have never heard of being non-binary or genderqueer, need them to tell me about the Philly Trans Health conference, or just need them to make things safe for me by pre-emptively […]
https://permutational.tumblr.com/post/173413178651/resilient So fucking beautiful/rad/powerful/just like our bodies/just like us.
Here’s hoping this is useful to you.
There’s a lot of people out there who want to give you advice. There’s a lot of people out there who have got feedback for you- how you speak, how you stand, how you react, how you fuck, how you spend, how you earn, how you listen. If you’re female and you look a little […]
So one terrible thing about detransition is that you’re left with very specific triggers. I’m not saying we’re all left with the same triggers. I’m just saying moving through the world as a trans guy is a very specific experience that is intensely shitty in very specific ways. Then it breaks down even more with […]
I love a narcissist. I’ve had one real, halfway normal relationship in my life, which was with my college boyfriend. There’s not much to say about that one other than it was a long time ago and I thought we’d get married. It was unequal in the way you’d expect the relationship a college girl […]
I don’t like it when people forget their manners. I’ve had to put up with people forgetting their manners in many contexts in my life. Jobs where the lawyers couldn’t remember their manners, the customers couldn’t, the management couldn’t. Performing comedy it was an every night occurrence that some drunk dummy, or totally sober and […]